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Men and women in the family

View of the future spouse already occur in children, and quite early. Stanislawska, I. G. and M. V. Zakharov (1998) revealed their presence already at 10-year-old girls who believed that the husband should be kind, attentive, sociable and smart.

While two thirds of respondents were evaluated and modeled future spouse or partner more like close friends than his father. V. E. Kagan (1987) studied the way of the future spouses in middle and high schools. At first this image was not yet sufficiently differentiated.

In the image of the ideal wife boys first place is the love of her husband (76 %), followed by motherhood and raising children (41 %), household characteristics (29 %) and emotional symptoms (warmth, kindness) – 29 %. All these responses fit into the traditional model of a woman “wife, mother and homemaker”.

Among high school students revealed a clear idea of what should be husband and wife. In boys the emotional attitude was attributed more to his wife than to the husband; the latter was attributed more strong-willed qualities, business activity, dominance and less sociability. The same view was available Continue reading

A Diary of the school of adoptive parents

This spring I visited my first school of adoptive parents. I decided to summarized the information and publish it on the forum specifically for those who cannot visit the PDS (for example, not all regions it is available).

For his countrymen – Volgograd explain: the School of adoptive parents is located. A total of 4 classes. It is useful to attend themselves.

The first lesson was devoted to the following topic:

– The reasons for the adoption of children in substitute families.

– Types of family units and their differences.

– The requirements of the legislation to the candidates.

– Preparing families and communities for adoption of the child (an issue we do not have time to consider on the first day).

I must say: do not be afraid to go to school for foster parents. At least today, the atmosphere was very friendly. The lesson was conducted by the specialist in children’s rights protection and child psychologist. The attitude of the leaders of the group– very correct. Were the agreed Continue reading

First medical examination of the child

Within twenty-four hours after birth, neonates are the first medical examination. Ask permission to be present at it. You learn a lot about the body

her newborn and will understand that the doctor checks. Let’s go through the first check your baby from head to toe.

Your doctor is your first impression about the General health of your child, just by looking at him. He was born preterm, post-term, or just in time? Is he in the position of the frog that indicates good muscle tone? Attentive if he is active, pink, healthy, and normal breathing?

Then, your doctor examines the child’s head to ensure there are no anomalies, and can provide you all perfectly normal bumps and seals on the head of a newborn. Soft whether flat springs? Measured coverage of the head and compared to the norm, to check, proportional if the baby’s head the length of its body and weight.

Positiv flashlight into the eyes of a child, your doctor checks cataract (lens opacity) or internal diseases of the eye. Normal size eyes? Your doctor will reassure you that a few broken capillaries in the whites of your child’s eyes will disappear in a few weeks. (Sometimes swollen eyelids of a newborn baby hamper a thorough eye examination, Continue reading

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