Every parent wants his child to grow up the most capable, the most happy, the most-most. And for this father and mother are working hard trying to give the child all the best, all what they believe is right. But if to look truth in the eye: we see less and less in modern children kindness, tolerance, love. Most of them have selfish goals in life. And for the sake of achieving their goals, they are willing to trample their brothers. This behavior is more characteristic of savages and animals than for human beings.
The question arises by itself – maybe not to that we teach our children . Maybe not the goals we tell them? The wrong way sending? In the gospel of Matthew says: ” can a good tree bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. ” (Matt.7:18) If
think logically, if our “fruits” – the lean, mean, and parents (wood) isn’t good? And instead reflect on the methods of child-rearing, only the older generation criticizes the youth. I suggest that instead of condemning to try to change the attitudes and learn the basics of the spiritual education of our descendants, unless of course you want your child to grow up decent, Continue reading
This spring I visited my first school of adoptive parents. I decided to summarized the information and publish it on the forum specifically for those who cannot visit the PDS (for example, not all regions it is available).
For his countrymen – Volgograd explain: the School of adoptive parents is located. A total of 4 classes. It is useful to attend themselves.
The first lesson was devoted to the following topic:
– The reasons for the adoption of children in substitute families.
– Types of family units and their differences.
– The requirements of the legislation to the candidates.
– Preparing families and communities for adoption of the child (an issue we do not have time to consider on the first day).
I must say: do not be afraid to go to school for foster parents. At least today, the atmosphere was very friendly. The lesson was conducted by the specialist in children’s rights protection and child psychologist. The attitude of the leaders of the group– very correct. Were the agreed Continue reading
What is so dangerous watching TV or video programs pre-school children? What happens to the child when he is watching a cartoon on TV or “educational drive” on your computer screen?
The first reason is physiological.
We know that during the first years of a child’s life eye is growing rapidly. Visual analyzer Matures only by 7-8 years. And therefore, in the first years of life of a preschooler and his eyesight is very vulnerable.
In order to clearly see the image, the visual system of the child is strained. This happens unconsciously and imperceptibly, and does not depend on our will, viewing distance, lighting, and other factors. When viewed constantly moving images on the screen the child’s eyes are constantly strained. And if this voltage occurs frequently or for a long period of time, the compensatory potential of the organ of vision can no longer restrain future violations.
The findings of all physiologists and physicians is very simple and categorical. To four, and preferably five years of age children is generally not recommended to watch TV and computer video programs. And the reason is not only eye strain, Continue reading