Every year in Russia is logged 500-600 thousand divorces, resulting in 400 to 600 thousand children remain with one parent. It is not surprising that the issues of custody of children are a significant factor in Russia as a rule the child remains with the mother), which affects the mental health of children after divorce. In addition, the age of the children is also a key factor affecting their psyche after the divorce. Different age groups of children have different perceptions and experiencing the situation “before”, “during” and “after” the end of a marriage.
Impact of divorce on children aged from eighteen months to three years
At this stage of development, the child is exploring the world in a safe and secure environment. The presence of the mother and father allows the children to become familiar with role-playing features in the family, they begin to imitate adults.
If there are disagreements in the home, conflict between parents, all of which can lead to stress, which will test the child. Small children have no experience in verbalizing their feelings, often begin to show their feelings through excited not controlled behavior. Their imagination is worse than their peers, and they begin to fear that if one parent leaves, the other will follow Continue reading
Every parent wants his child to grow up the most capable, the most happy, the most-most. And for this father and mother are working hard trying to give the child all the best, all what they believe is right. But if to look truth in the eye: we see less and less in modern children kindness, tolerance, love. Most of them have selfish goals in life. And for the sake of achieving their goals, they are willing to trample their brothers. This behavior is more characteristic of savages and animals than for human beings.
The question arises by itself – maybe not to that we teach our children . Maybe not the goals we tell them? The wrong way sending? In the gospel of Matthew says: ” can a good tree bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. ” (Matt.7:18) If
think logically, if our “fruits” – the lean, mean, and parents (wood) isn’t good? And instead reflect on the methods of child-rearing, only the older generation criticizes the youth. I suggest that instead of condemning to try to change the attitudes and learn the basics of the spiritual education of our descendants, unless of course you want your child to grow up decent, Continue reading
To fall in love, get married, start a family is much easier than to keep all these goods. The love between husband and wife over time is transformed, passing from one stage to another, but the memories of the feeling generated at the first meeting, make you think, if something goes wrong. Marriage is not heavy daily routine and lifestyle, which is kind of broken “family boat”, not caring for my newborn baby and the dangers on the career ladder. The hardest part is continuing every day to choose each other and strive, above all, to give without thinking about how to take. Male, 12 years old have been married, a father of five children, says that he and his wife learned about family relationships and love.
12 lessons learned in 12 years of marriage
Husband, father of four daughters and a son decided to tell about the most important lessons he has acquired over 12 years of marriage.
In 12 years of marriage my wife and I have seen a lot. We got married before I graduated from College. Soon started their first child. I graduated from College. A new child. Two miscarriages. Four more children. When he was born the youngest, we had five kids under the age of 8 years. He owned four houses. Rented a house and an apartment anywhere Continue reading