View of the future spouse already occur in children, and quite early. Stanislawska, I. G. and M. V. Zakharov (1998) revealed their presence already at 10-year-old girls who believed that the husband should be kind, attentive, sociable and smart.
While two thirds of respondents were evaluated and modeled future spouse or partner more like close friends than his father. V. E. Kagan (1987) studied the way of the future spouses in middle and high schools. At first this image was not yet sufficiently differentiated.
In the image of the ideal wife boys first place is the love of her husband (76 %), followed by motherhood and raising children (41 %), household characteristics (29 %) and emotional symptoms (warmth, kindness) – 29 %. All these responses fit into the traditional model of a woman “wife, mother and homemaker”.
Among high school students revealed a clear idea of what should be husband and wife. In boys the emotional attitude was attributed more to his wife than to the husband; the latter was attributed more strong-willed qualities, business activity, dominance and less sociability. The same view was available Continue reading
This spring I visited my first school of adoptive parents. I decided to summarized the information and publish it on the forum specifically for those who cannot visit the PDS (for example, not all regions it is available).
For his countrymen – Volgograd explain: the School of adoptive parents is located. A total of 4 classes. It is useful to attend themselves.
The first lesson was devoted to the following topic:
– The reasons for the adoption of children in substitute families.
– Types of family units and their differences.
– The requirements of the legislation to the candidates.
– Preparing families and communities for adoption of the child (an issue we do not have time to consider on the first day).
I must say: do not be afraid to go to school for foster parents. At least today, the atmosphere was very friendly. The lesson was conducted by the specialist in children’s rights protection and child psychologist. The attitude of the leaders of the group– very correct. Were the agreed Continue reading
Today I will reveal you the secret of a happy wife. The secret is very simple: the husband in a woman’s life is in the first place .
Unfortunately, women with this secret do not own or know nothing about him, so not very many people manage to build a happy relationship with her husband.
Quarrels replace scandals. This ends the alienation at best, and at worst a divorce.
Why there are problems in the family? Because that woman wrong priorities . Today women are torn between children, work, career, home, their parents, the expectation that the husband will understand employment and appreciate women’s efforts, and her husband not only do not appreciate, but also offended and spoils our life, which we’ve arranged.
Every woman dreams to have a happy family, a loving husband, children, beautiful, cozy house, and at some point we women, put the very idea of the family in the first place, and the husband becomes merely a means . by which we achieve this goal.
We get married and have children, educate them, encourage them in a thousand circles, working for the good of our family, are all in the house and at some point forget about Continue reading